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Your kids having sex in your home Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
5th Feb '14

Just curious but how old will your son or daughter need to be before you allow him/her to have sex in your home?

I'm married and 24 and I wouldn't feel comfortable even attempting that in my parents home, but if they found out I think they'd be really mad. Last time we spent the night there my mom came in to say good night and left the door open, lol. The time before that I was pregnant and we were in separate rooms. I feel like I'd never be comfortable with my daughter having sex in my home. If she's old enough for regular sex than she's old enough to get a job and move out. 

I don't think you can say for sure if you're pregnant or TTC because your answer will likely change when you have a child. 

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
5th Feb '14

I constantly had sex in my moms house. CONSTANTLY. Like every night

I'm not sure when I would be comfortable knowing that Cora is having sex in my house, if ever. It might be one of those "As long as I don't see it or hear it, I can pretend it isn't happening" type things" (when she is older, not as a teen)

Mama2(three)Boys ♥ 3 kids; New Jersey 10427 posts
5th Feb '14

Ill never be comfortable with my children having sex in my house

Kae ♥. 1 child; United States 218 posts
5th Feb '14

never that's disrespectful in my opinion I can't have sex in my mom's house and I never have she was way too strict and I was way too scared of her to even ATTEMPT something like that lmao.

if I wanted to have sex or planned for it I either snuck out or went to his or somebody else house.

JΔ$ Georgia 78653 posts
status 5th Feb '14

I don't think its something you can allow or not. 38 Like, its really up to the couple to decide if they are going to have sex in their parent's house or not. Most people find it weird. Me? Idgaf. I'm just really quiet and we usually do it when my mom is gone for the evening or something. I'm pretty sure she knows. 

As for my kids, they aren't allowed to have sex ever. :)

BαtMαɳ Gotham, DC, United States 73897 posts
status 5th Feb '14

I have never had sex in my parents house. EVER.

I will die whenever I find out one of them isn't a virgin anymore. Can't even think about it.

Chocoholicmom 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Scottsbluff, NE, United States 377 posts
5th Feb '14

I wish they would never have sex in my house! At least when they are still teenagers. I mean if they are considered adults (18+) and are working and contribute to the home, I guess I could be "ok" with it....still not totally sure until it happens haha. I may be polar opposite and flip my shit if it actually happens38

I had sex with my DH (then BF) at my mom's house. She never knew though. I bet if she did, she'd kick my ass!

Just Keep Swimmin' United States 555 posts
5th Feb '14

Never! If she's having sex, she better be of age and out of my house!

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
5th Feb '14

Quoting L&J ♥ +1:
Ill never be comfortable with my children having sex in my house


Me either, the thought is really bothering me right now. 

I'm not naive like I know it'll happen but I would feel so disrespected if she did it in my home, like just not giving a f**k. If she's really young than it'll bother me that she's having sex in general but if she's in her late teens early 20's it'll bother me that she's that old and disrespectful. Just either way, skeeves me out. 

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 25826 posts
status 5th Feb '14

Lol not until she's married and home visiting or something. We conceived this baby while home for Xmas in my parents house. Awkwardly my whole
family knew because my sister told my mom I was ovulating LOL. 

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75063 posts
5th Feb '14

I don't think there is any age that I will "allow" it. As a minor, anyways.

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
5th Feb '14

Quoting JΔS:
I don't think its something you can allow or not. 38 Like, its really up to the couple to decide if they are going to have sex in their parent's house or not. Most people find it weird. Me? Idgaf. I'm just really quiet and we usually do it when my mom is gone for the evening or something. I'm pretty sure she knows. 

As for my kids, they aren't allowed to have sex ever. :)


Jasmine! Omg! You're lucky your mom didn't beat that ass! 

Kae ♥. 1 child; United States 218 posts
5th Feb '14

Quoting Elliot Grace (7 weeks):
Lol not until she's married and home visiting or something. We conceived this baby while home for Xmas in my parents house. Awkwardly my whole
family knew because my sister told my mom I was ovulating LOL.
 


oh my gosh that would be extremely weird for me lol I can picture that scenario playing out in my mind if it were my SO and I.

JΔ$ Georgia 78653 posts
status 5th Feb '14

Quoting Legendary Amanda:

Jasmine! Omg! You're lucky your mom didn't beat that ass! 


She doesn't care. Like I said, I'm almost positive that she knows. I have one of those moms. Its not like I'm a teenager. I'm married. We go to visit for 3-4 weeks at a time, you think I'm going that long without the long stroke? Yeah right. 

*~*Kristen_Nicole*~* Due July 5; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Nowhere, CA, United States 3257 posts
5th Feb '14

Quoting Legendary Amanda:
Just curious but how old will your son or daughter need to be before you allow him/her to have sex in your home?

I'm married and 24 and I wouldn't feel comfortable even attempting that in my parents home, but if they found out I think they'd be really mad. Last time we spent the night there my mom came in to say good night and left the door open, lol. The time before that I was pregnant and we were in separate rooms. I feel like I'd never be comfortable with my daughter having sex in my home. If she's old enough for regular sex than she's old enough to get a job and move out. 

I don't think you can say for sure if you're pregnant or TTC because your answer will likely change when you have a child. 


I'm going to go with never. If my daughters were having sex under my roof I'd be so upset! I would never allow my daughters bf or if I have a son this time his gf to spend the night in my house either. I think allowing your child's bf/gf to stay at your home is giving the ok for them to have sex or makes the temptation greater. Now we all know kids will find a way to have sex if they really want to but why make it easier for them or make them think you're ok with it. I also feel if my kids are old enough to feel having sex regularly is ok then they're obviously old enough to pay their own bills and live as the adults they think they are and move out! My house my rules period.