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If you have no sex drive.. -CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Do you still initiate sex with your DH/SO? Do you still make yourself do it for their sake?

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 24990 posts
status 27th Mar

I do it for his sake lol

-CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Elliot Grace (14 weeks):
I do it for his sake lol


haha.  ugh.  I have such a hard time making myself.  and then he's like, "you need to initiate it because I can't stand being the one making the first move constantly".  which, ok, I get.  but still.  I'm like look buddy, difference is, YOU want to ;)

*~*Kristen_Nicole*~* Due July 5; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Nowhere, CA, United States 3233 posts
27th Mar

No! I have not had sex in months. The thought of anything sexual makes me sick! I honestly get sick to my stomach. I feel bad but it's nothing I can help I would if. I could and honestly I miss having sex LoL oh well I'm almost done and after. I deliver my sex drive always comes back in full swing more intense than before 

Ellie Goulding 1 child; London, --, United Kingdom 4761 posts
27th Mar

Yep. I still initiate for his sake and then like once we start I decide it's pretty good after all. haha.
That's one thing I miss about being pregnant- early pregnancy turned me into a sex fiend and now I'd rather be reading.

OjibwaBeauty4life 2 kids; United States 635 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Pleasepourmeanotherfrench:
Do you still initiate sex with your DH/SO? Do you still make yourself do it for their sake?


Do it for his sake. I went through the same thing once. And even though i didnt want it after we were done. My sex dive slowly started to go up slowly every time i tried lol

Elle&Cole 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 24990 posts
status 27th Mar

Well once it gets going I'm into it, I just never feel like getting it going lol

Crunchy Oat 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Houston, TX, United States 2829 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Pleasepourmeanotherfrench:
Do you still initiate sex with your DH/SO? Do you still make yourself do it for their sake?


Yes and no. I do it for his sake, but I also know that the hormone stimulation it causes for me will help increase my sex drive. So it that sense, it's for me... Plus once I get going it still feels awesome, it's just I have no desire after homework, housework, kids etc...

-CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Quoting The Great Deku Tree:
Yep. I still initiate for his sake and then like halfway through I decide it's pretty good after all. haha.
That's one thing I miss about being pregnant- early pregnancy turned me into a sex fiend and now I'd rather be reading.


lol, really? early pregnancy makes me just want to vomit.

-CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Quoting The Great Deku Tree:
Yep. I still initiate for his sake and then like halfway through I decide it's pretty good after all. haha.
That's one thing I miss about being pregnant- early pregnancy turned me into a sex fiend and now I'd rather be reading.


lol, really? early pregnancy makes me just want to vomit.

-CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Nativebeauty Jamie:

Do it for his sake. I went through the same thing once. And even though i didnt want it after we were done. My sex dive slowly started to go up slowly every time i tried lol


yeahh,  I really SHOULD try more.  I'm just so..tired.  Lazy.  All of the above.

-CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Elliot Grace (14 weeks):
Well once it gets going I'm into it, I just never feel like getting it going lol


word.  my sentiments exactly.

Crunchy Oat 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Houston, TX, United States 2829 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Pleasepourmeanotherfrench:

haha.  ugh.  I have such a hard time making myself.  and then he's like, "you need to initiate it because I can't stand being the one making the first move constantly".  which, ok, I get.  but still.  I'm like look buddy, difference is, YOU want to ;)


I totally get this. DH gave up initiating after he got shot down so much. He just told me I had to start it up if U felt like it so he wasn't "pressuring me"

-CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Crunchy Oat:

Yes and no. I do it for his sake, but I also know that the hormone stimulation it causes for me will help increase my sex drive. So it that sense, it's for me... Plus once I get going it still feels awesome, it's just I have no desire after homework, housework, kids etc...


exactly.  I get home from work, i'm drained, and then I feel like shit all day so I'm like yeahhh.....no.

-CNK- 2 kids; United States 2715 posts
27th Mar

Quoting Crunchy Oat:

I totally get this. DH gave up initiating after he got shot down so much. He just told me I had to start it up if U felt like it so he wasn't "pressuring me"


yep.  that's where my husband and I are at.  he said he feels like a gross dude always trying to get in my pants, lol.