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Ronnie RadKat 4 kids; Arizona 21899 posts
27th Mar

I've never placed a child but did consider it with my second. I was in abusive relationship and didn't think I could properly care for another child. I ended up being convinced by others to parent but things got progressively worse in my relationship and I ended up leaving and being homeless with 2 children. It was really difficult and I sometimes think he would have been better off had I placed him. I still carry a lot of guilt about it. 

Thats a very tough spot to be in, I wish you all the best in deciding what's best for you and your child. 

LilSmoreOnBoard Due February 21; StalkMe, IL, United States 2080 posts
27th Mar

I went through adoption but never placed. Complicated however you will only know deep down what's best for you. 
Relax, take it one step and day at a time and the right path I feel will fall into place. 
try not to over think, usually your gut is the best choice. I wish you luck

CircleK 1 child; 1 angel baby; Federal Way, WA, United States 10034 posts
29th Mar

I've never done it but I considered it when my daughter was a year old because everything had gone wrong and we were living in a homeless shelter at the time. It crossed my mind that my daughter would be better off with another family because I couldn't even give her a home.

Best of luck to you with whatever you decide with. You have my number, call or text if you need anything, even just to get away for a few hours.

user banned Nassau, BA, Bahamas 5125 posts
29th Mar

Quoting Circle K:
I've never done it but I considered it when my daughter was a year old because everything had gone wrong and we were living in a homeless shelter at the time. It crossed my mind that my daughter would be better off with another family because I couldn't even give her a home.

Best of luck to you with whatever you decide with. You have my number, call or text if you need anything, even just to get away for a few hours.


Thanks <3 Haven't decided yet.