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D. Delete....3578 1 angel baby; Burbank, Ca, United States 940 posts
6th Apr '14

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♥♫Boobook♫♥ 4 kids; Private, WA, United States 9307 posts
6th Apr '14

What an ass. Can you go to your moms? He sounds pretty self centered....

AlyssaJane+4 Due December 11 (girl); TTC since Jan 2015; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2504 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting Boobook:
What an ass. Can you go to your moms? He sounds pretty self centered....


I would go to my moms...

Delete....3578 1 angel baby; Burbank, Ca, United States 940 posts
6th Apr '14

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AlyssaJane+4 Due December 11 (girl); TTC since Jan 2015; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2504 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting J.B.G♥:
I could but dd is asleep. And there's no way I wld leave her. Also my mom wld want to know why I left and so late. Don't wanna make it a big deal, but next time. He can stay at his moms I'll stay with mine problem solved. Why am I gonna come here when I have my mom to pamper me when I'm there. Makes no sense...


Steal the couch cushions or find a blanket to prop you up...ask him to get you another pillow it is his parents house. 

Delete....3578 1 angel baby; Burbank, Ca, United States 940 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting Leland makes 
Finally loved 3 kids; 6 angel babies; Seaside, Oregon 6635 posts
6th Apr '14

I usually just b***h and moan and toss and turn until my dh gives me his pillow or finds better ones. 

AlyssaJane+4 Due December 11 (girl); TTC since Jan 2015; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2504 posts
6th Apr '14
Quoting J.B.G♥:

I'm using my daughters blanket, and were sharing one. And they have a leather couch so couldn't steal that lol. And ugh it so cold in here


Awe man my next suggestion was move to the couch but idk whats worse air mattress or leather couch... wait for him to fall asleep and then steal a  pillow =) I sleep with 2 body pillows 2 pillows behind my head and look one between my knees.. SO dosent dare mess with them when im pregnant.he wants to burn the body pillows tnough. however he does like to fold my pillows In  half in turn flattening them.  you could try that too...with your already flat pillow. Im in the same heartburn boat.. its sucks. Thats why im awake at  4 30 am my time...

AlyssaJane+4 Due December 11 (girl); TTC since Jan 2015; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2504 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting Taun Taun Momma:
I usually just b***h and moan and toss and turn until my dh gives me his pillow or finds better ones. 


Yeah that too... I keep my own blanket and pillow in mg trunk for visiting my SO's parents.. they have t I many pets so tneir stuff is covered in fur... its gross that amd I have to bring snacks.. his mom dosent like anyone in her kitchen and usually dosent cook anything but dinner and its portion controlled shes pre diabetic. Ive gone into their kitchen after not eating all day and she asks me in a rude tone can I help you... I just bring my own now. 

Finally loved 3 kids; 6 angel babies; Seaside, Oregon 6635 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:

Yeah that too... I keep my own blanket and pillow in mg trunk for visiting my SO's parents.. they have t I many pets so tneir stuff is covered in fur... its gross that amd I have to bring snacks.. his mom dosent like anyone in her kitchen and usually dosent cook anything but dinner and its portion controlled shes pre diabetic. Ive gone into their kitchen after not eating all day and she asks me in a rude tone can I help you... I just bring my own now. 


My MIL has so much food but makes me feel unwelcome to take anything, even my husband doesn't raid her fridge!! And she keeps her house freezing so I sleep with a million blankets! I hate visiting there

AlyssaJane+4 Due December 11 (girl); TTC since Jan 2015; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2504 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting Taun Taun Momma:

My MIL has so much food but makes me feel unwelcome to take anything, even my husband doesn't raid her fridge!! And she keeps her house freezing so I sleep with a million blankets! I hate visiting there


I hate visiting his parents house .. even if I take a shower I still dont feel clean because of the pets.. they have 2 dogs and 9 cats in their house! I have 1 cat and I dont even like him in my house..im not really a cat person.. SO is.. probably because his mom is the crazy cat lady.

AlyssaJane+4 Due December 11 (girl); TTC since Jan 2015; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2504 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting Taun Taun Momma:

My MIL has so much food but makes me feel unwelcome to take anything, even my husband doesn't raid her fridge!! And she keeps her house freezing so I sleep with a million blankets! I hate visiting there


Same thing with his mom about food..only Ken will raid his moms fridge for me after she goes to bed... usually IF there are any leftovers In  there worth eating. 

Space Cadet Corporal Bug 1 child; StalkMe, IL, United States 4298 posts
status 6th Apr '14

1 rule. neither get to stay at parents house ;P and get a hotel room XD solves the fighting at least

If you cant do that, then, say if your going to stay at his moms, then he needs to respect your needs and give you what you need to be able to sleep comfortably or there will be no other chances in future to stay there. 

just saying. hes being an ass and i cant imagine being pregnant on an air matress. :/ And then not giving up a pillow or getting you one. no go in my book :D we both comfy, or we both suffer!

blahblahh + TwInZ 2 kids; Melbourne, Vi, Australia 541 posts
6th Apr '14

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:

I hate visiting his parents house .. even if I take a shower I still dont feel clean because of the pets.. they have 2 dogs and 9 cats in their house! I have 1 cat and I dont even like him in my house..im not really a cat person.. SO is.. probably because his mom is the crazy cat lady.


Whoaaaaa that's a wholllle lot of cats

✩BG Addict +2 1/2 Due October 7; 2 kids; Ashtabula, OH, United States 25698 posts
status 6th Apr '14

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:

I hate visiting his parents house .. even if I take a shower I still dont feel clean because of the pets.. they have 2 dogs and 9 cats in their house! I have 1 cat and I dont even like him in my house..im not really a cat person.. SO is.. probably because his mom is the crazy cat lady.


hey now, don't knock crazy cat ladies lol i would be one too if i could afford that many. i have 3 haha

your SO sounds like a jerk though. can you fold the pillow in half or get a blanket or soemthign to prop you up more?