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Such a jerk! J.B.G♥ Due September 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Sunnyside, WA, United States 934 posts
6th Apr

So I convinced dh to stay closer to our parents (at his parents of course) since I want to go to church here tomorrow. He was being a jerk and saying no no no. So finally he says ok but were staying at his parents. (Our parents live maybe 10min away) anyway. We sleep on a inflatable mattress so his mom gave him his on and 2 fluffy pillows. And I got a flat one almost nothing! Since I'm pregnant I have heartburn so I asked him for one. He said nah I'm cool! Ughhh what a jerk! Wish I cld just get up and go to my moms. Maybe I'm overreacting. But heartburn sucks especially when u can't sleep cuz of it... Did I mention how uncomfortable air mattress are :/ 

Boobook 4 kids; Private, WA, United States 5916 posts
6th Apr

What an ass. Can you go to your moms? He sounds pretty self centered....

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2397 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Boobook:
What an ass. Can you go to your moms? He sounds pretty self centered....


I would go to my moms...

J.B.G♥ Due September 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Sunnyside, WA, United States 934 posts
6th Apr

I could but dd is asleep. And there's no way I wld leave her. Also my mom wld want to know why I left and so late. Don't wanna make it a big deal, but next time. He can stay at his moms I'll stay with mine problem solved. Why am I gonna come here when I have my mom to pamper me when I'm there. Makes no sense...

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2397 posts
6th Apr

Quoting J.B.G♥:
I could but dd is asleep. And there's no way I wld leave her. Also my mom wld want to know why I left and so late. Don't wanna make it a big deal, but next time. He can stay at his moms I'll stay with mine problem solved. Why am I gonna come here when I have my mom to pamper me when I'm there. Makes no sense...


Steal the couch cushions or find a blanket to prop you up...ask him to get you another pillow it is his parents house. 

J.B.G♥ Due September 16; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Sunnyside, WA, United States 934 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:

Steal the couch cushions or find a blanket to prop you up...ask him to get you another pillow it is his parents house. 


I'm using my daughters blanket, and were sharing one. And they have a leather couch so couldn't steal that lol. And ugh it so cold in here

Heaven blessed 3 kids; 6 angel babies; Seaside, Oregon 6238 posts
6th Apr

I usually just bitch and moan and toss and turn until my dh gives me his pillow or finds better ones. 

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2397 posts
6th Apr
Quoting J.B.G♥:

I'm using my daughters blanket, and were sharing one. And they have a leather couch so couldn't steal that lol. And ugh it so cold in here


Awe man my next suggestion was move to the couch but idk whats worse air mattress or leather couch... wait for him to fall asleep and then steal a  pillow =) I sleep with 2 body pillows 2 pillows behind my head and look one between my knees.. SO dosent dare mess with them when im pregnant.he wants to burn the body pillows tnough. however he does like to fold my pillows In  half in turn flattening them.  you could try that too...with your already flat pillow. Im in the same heartburn boat.. its sucks. Thats why im awake at  4 30 am my time...

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2397 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Taun Taun Momma:
I usually just bitch and moan and toss and turn until my dh gives me his pillow or finds better ones. 


Yeah that too... I keep my own blanket and pillow in mg trunk for visiting my SO's parents.. they have t I many pets so tneir stuff is covered in fur... its gross that amd I have to bring snacks.. his mom dosent like anyone in her kitchen and usually dosent cook anything but dinner and its portion controlled shes pre diabetic. Ive gone into their kitchen after not eating all day and she asks me in a rude tone can I help you... I just bring my own now. 

Heaven blessed 3 kids; 6 angel babies; Seaside, Oregon 6238 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:

Yeah that too... I keep my own blanket and pillow in mg trunk for visiting my SO's parents.. they have t I many pets so tneir stuff is covered in fur... its gross that amd I have to bring snacks.. his mom dosent like anyone in her kitchen and usually dosent cook anything but dinner and its portion controlled shes pre diabetic. Ive gone into their kitchen after not eating all day and she asks me in a rude tone can I help you... I just bring my own now. 


My MIL has so much food but makes me feel unwelcome to take anything, even my husband doesn't raid her fridge!! And she keeps her house freezing so I sleep with a million blankets! I hate visiting there

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2397 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Taun Taun Momma:

My MIL has so much food but makes me feel unwelcome to take anything, even my husband doesn't raid her fridge!! And she keeps her house freezing so I sleep with a million blankets! I hate visiting there


I hate visiting his parents house .. even if I take a shower I still dont feel clean because of the pets.. they have 2 dogs and 9 cats in their house! I have 1 cat and I dont even like him in my house..im not really a cat person.. SO is.. probably because his mom is the crazy cat lady.

Leland makes Three =] TTC since Aug 2014; 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Grand Rapids, MI, United States 2397 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Taun Taun Momma:

My MIL has so much food but makes me feel unwelcome to take anything, even my husband doesn't raid her fridge!! And she keeps her house freezing so I sleep with a million blankets! I hate visiting there


Same thing with his mom about food..only Ken will raid his moms fridge for me after she goes to bed... usually IF there are any leftovers In  there worth eating. 

Leah's Mommy <3 Due February 21 (girl); StalkMe, IL, United States 2362 posts
6th Apr

1 rule. neither get to stay at parents house ;P and get a hotel room XD solves the fighting at least

If you cant do that, then, say if your going to stay at his moms, then he needs to respect your needs and give you what you need to be able to sleep comfortably or there will be no other chances in future to stay there. 

just saying. hes being an ass and i cant imagine being pregnant on an air matress. :/ And then not giving up a pillow or getting you one. no go in my book :D we both comfy, or we both suffer!

blahblahh + TwInZ 2 kids; Melbourne, Vi, Australia 540 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:

I hate visiting his parents house .. even if I take a shower I still dont feel clean because of the pets.. they have 2 dogs and 9 cats in their house! I have 1 cat and I dont even like him in my house..im not really a cat person.. SO is.. probably because his mom is the crazy cat lady.


Whoaaaaa that's a wholllle lot of cats

✩BG Addict +2 2 kids; Ohio 24431 posts
6th Apr

Quoting Leland makes Three =]:

I hate visiting his parents house .. even if I take a shower I still dont feel clean because of the pets.. they have 2 dogs and 9 cats in their house! I have 1 cat and I dont even like him in my house..im not really a cat person.. SO is.. probably because his mom is the crazy cat lady.


hey now, don't knock crazy cat ladies lol i would be one too if i could afford that many. i have 3 haha

your SO sounds like a jerk though. can you fold the pillow in half or get a blanket or soemthign to prop you up more?