Pregnant with alcoholic husband Jenny18 Malaysia 3 posts
6th Apr '14

My husband is recently very stressed out with his work, so he started drinking heavily, got very drunk and sometimes I've been called up by the pub manager to take him home coz he involve in fighting in the pub. He's a strong and muscular man. I'm 3 months pregnant and I'm worried about many issues currently.

Space Cadet Corporal Bug 1 child; StalkMe, IL, United States 4314 posts
status 6th Apr '14

You should be worried. Tell him he needs to get help because a baby is coming and that behavior isnt acceptable. Stress isnt an excuse. GL

Jenny18 Malaysia 3 posts
6th Apr '14

He promised to search for help. I told him that I'm worried that we will lose our unborn one day

TheNuge 1 child; Pennsylvania 23152 posts
6th Apr '14

You are afraid that he would be violent with you and his family?

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
6th Apr '14

All you can do is suggest help, and if he doesn't get it, then you have choices to make. Is it safe to raise your child in this environment? It doesn't sound like it. And you can't force him to stop.