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well what the crap? jcardin29 Due July 5 (boy); 2 kids; United States 1197 posts
8th Jun

So it's obvious that my husband has no interest in me at all anymore. Not just during this pregnancy, but long before that. I'm surprised I even got pregnant during our once per month fling. Yeah once a month is pretty much it for us in the bedroom department. Its buggingme a ton more these days because I keep catching him jerking off. I'm not trying to be funny, but seriously?! First time was a day I felt really sick so I came home from to lay down. I guess I was loud coming in and he thought someone let themselves in so he was comingdown the hall and his pants were unbuttoned. I found the oil and all sitting next to the bed. I thought that I had let him know how much it bothered me, especially since he denied me the night before. Now I just keep catching him on my many times waking up to use the bathroom. Man, I just don't know what to do?! I always thought men dreamed of wives that liked sex.!?

lissy 27 2 kids; Australia 203 posts
8th Jun

I have a really close friend Going through this exact same thing, except her husband watches porn and wanks. 
it has come out that he is just not enjoying sex anymore trying to please her when he can just please himself. 
he has also been diagnosed with depression ( which apparently can alter sex drive significantly) 
they have talked numerous times about it, even separated over it in the past still nothing has improved greatly now they will be seeing a sex therapist to work on things. 
dont beat yourself up. Every one is beautiful, and im sure he still loves you.

Dwight Schrute 2 kids; Somewhere, TX, United States 2491 posts
8th Jun

Have you spoken to him about it? That should be your first step.

ChristinaLynne 3 kids; Pancake, TX, United States 29771 posts
status 8th Jun

Have you talked to him about it?  

jcardin29 Due July 5 (boy); 2 kids; United States 1197 posts
8th Jun

I have talked to him several times.