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This sucks *stupid rant* •♡abbydoodle29♡• 1 child; United States 385 posts
8th Aug

SO's family is coming tomorrow morning and staying the night here because he told them I'd clean up and make sure there was enough space for everyone to sleep. I'm so overwhelmed right now it's unbelievable. The house is a disaster there's so much laundry that needs to be done. My parents house is big and there's just too much floor to cover! Our old roommate just dipped out months ago and his crap is all over the place my brother has been gone with the Marines for a year and came back the day DD was born but he is gone for the weekend and I have to clean up his room for people to say and it's nastier than the whole house!! It's like every room has been used as a damn storage unit and I've been begging my mom for a month to go through stuff and get rid of what we don't use and organize the rest but she always comes up with bs excused to not do it
 
SO is in a bad mood and still at work so I don't see him helping much, dad's at home but working, and mom's sleeping...... I hate that I literally have to clean everything all the time. No one else gives a shit what the house looks like... or well they give a shit but do nothing about it!!

Grr sorry for the long rant I'm just so stressed out and I need to vent. 

ℓittle Liz 2 kids; Texas 18858 posts
8th Aug

LOL that's not cool. sorry for laughing he basically just put all the work on you and said, "bye i'm headed to work!" i'm use to that lol. 
well what's done is done.
clean what you can and after his family leaves have a talk with him and tell him that wasn't cool and he owes you big time. =P

•♡abbydoodle29♡• 1 child; United States 385 posts
8th Aug

Quoting ℓittle Liz:
LOL that's not cool. sorry for laughing he basically just put all the work on you and said, "bye i'm headed to work!" i'm use to that lol. 
well what's done is done.
clean what you can and after his family leaves have a talk with him and tell him that wasn't cool and he owes you big time. =P


I know!!!! And they were so gonna get a hotel room too and he told them not too. I'm so not letting him sleep tonight lol. Purposely gonna be super loud while taking care of the baby 

Addi&Aria'smama Due January 23 (girl); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 5722 posts
8th Aug

OMG I would be so pissed. DH does shit like that except he won't even tell and let people walk into a pigsty. It pisses me off so much. I am mortified when I come home and find out he had people over and not even dishes were done. It is too much for me to do alone though while working full time.

Boobo&bugs 2 kids; Simpsonville, South Carolina 7698 posts
status 8th Aug

Dh always does this! I stopped cleaning and figured he'd get the hint. Totally spaced he was raised by the dirtiest fing people on earth. So he's right at home in filth. He felt no shame having people over with the house in the state it was. Now I just tell him no not till he helps me clean.

ℓittle Liz 2 kids; Texas 18858 posts
8th Aug

Quoting abbysmom0803:

I know!!!! And they were so gonna get a hotel room too and he told them not too. I'm so not letting him sleep tonight lol. Purposely gonna be super loud while taking care of the baby 


where's the ROFL emoji. 
i truly don't understand men it's like they are fine with living in a mess and don't care what other people think when they walk into their home. 

my husband said once as long as he can get to the toilet to pee he's ok Angry
EW, no! 

Colt's mommy 1 child; Moore, Oklahoma 22089 posts
8th Aug

Quoting Addi's Momma:
OMG I would be so pissed. DH does shit like that except he won't even tell and let people walk into a pigsty. It pisses me off so much. I am mortified when I come home and find out he had people over and not even dishes were done. It is too much for me to do alone though while working full time.


oh I hate that!!!  I clean the entire house on the weekends and at least try to keep it picked up through out the work week but it's hard.  So, this week was my first week back from vacation (actually I had the house spotless on Sunday night) so I haven't kept up as well since I've been wanting to spend my time with DH and LO whom didn't go with me on vacation.  Then DH got sick so didn't even help with the kitchen or toys like he normally does.  Today I had to have our neighbor help us with something and really the house is just trashed!!!  I'm trying to just not think about it, lol.  

•♡abbydoodle29♡• 1 child; United States 385 posts
8th Aug

OMG I'm so glad I'm not the only one lol. I told him he's helping me do this bs when he gets home or else. And my SO also invites people over without a warning and the house will be so gross it's so embarrassing! !

ℓittle Liz 2 kids; Texas 18858 posts
8th Aug

ok here is what you do....hide everything you can in your closet until they can leave and you can really clean. 

ready....go! lol

also, i joke around with him when i'm upset saying i'm going on a strike when it comes to bed activities. =P always works. 

•♡abbydoodle29♡• 1 child; United States 385 posts
8th Aug

Quoting ℓittle Liz:
ok here is what you do....hide everything you can in your closet until they can leave and you can really clean. 

ready....go! lol

also, i joke around with him when i'm upset saying i'm going on a strike when it comes to bed activities. =P always works. 


Man I'm only 2 week pp so I'm already on strike :(



 I told him he better go buy a blow up mattress because I refuse to clean my brothers room lol. It's his mom, her new fiance who we haven't met yet, his two teenage sisters, and his 8 year old brother like ugh too many damn people
ℓittle Liz 2 kids; Texas 18858 posts
8th Aug

Quoting abbysmom0803:

Man I'm only 2 week pp so I'm already on strike :(

 I told him he better go buy a blow up mattress because I refuse to clean my brothers room lol. It's his mom, her new fiance who we haven't met yet, his two teenage sisters, and his 8 year old brother like ugh too many damn people


your home suddenly got caught on fire. awww looks like they have to go get a hotel room after all lol jk 
5 people fit on a couch right?
i would def be pissed.  

•♡abbydoodle29♡• 1 child; United States 385 posts
8th Aug

Quoting ℓittle Liz:

your home suddenly got caught on fire. awww looks like they have to go get a hotel room after all lol jk 
5 people fit on a couch right?
i would def be pissed.  


I am!!  I'm so leaving the house to go shopping before he gets home...

ℓittle Liz 2 kids; Texas 18858 posts
8th Aug

i would let him clean it all 
and just be like i'm so sorry i've been so busy with the baby

•♡abbydoodle29♡• 1 child; United States 385 posts
8th Aug

Quoting ℓittle Liz:
i would let him clean it all 
and just be like i'm so sorry i've been so busy with the baby


I know that's what I told him! I know he works all the damn time and provides for.our family but I definitely do everything when it comes to the baby. He doesn't understand I don't get to sleep any longer than 4 hours. Shdm men

ℓittle Liz 2 kids; Texas 18858 posts
8th Aug

Quoting abbysmom0803:

I know that's what I told him! I know he works all the damn time and provides for.our family but I definitely do everything when it comes to the baby. He doesn't understand I don't get to sleep any longer than 4 hours. Shdm men


taking care of a baby is a job plus you have to clean, cook, and still handle his and your needs?
I wonder if you were working if he would help out. 
try to talk to him and make him understand he's being lazy. that's a no no!