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HI I AM 16 and pregnant *@LysSA* Oregon 14 posts
1st Aug '08

HI im Alyssa and Im 16 turning 17 in december. I am a very tough situation...
I am 3 months pregnant and 1 week. I never thought i would get pregnant this young. I mean its not the end of the world but theres alot you gotta stop doing or put on hold... BUt its exciting and scary at the same time.. BRINGing in a new life..
Well I have had unprottected sex in the past with one of my boyfriends before and I never got pregnant... But I had a new boyfriend ... I got pregnant 2 days after my period ended...I didnt know I was pregnant till I was 6.5 weeks.. I missed my period and I had all the symptoms.. but didn't want to believe it.

IM scared cuz my boyfriend is older than me and we were only together for 4 months. Well anyway it only took one time to get pregnant..ITs hard for me to tell my parents. There divorcing...me and my mom arn't close anymore and I dont see her much and im afraid if i tell her she might completly flip out on me.... SOme say this might bring the family closer???.. I dont know how she'll react. Or my dad.. hes been depressed for 3 months cuz my mom left him. And he drinks like every single night and i dont know wat to do......... I live with my 19 year old brother and my dad and his friend thats a girl.... I am the baby out of my sister and my brother..,..... Im postitive im keeping my baby. Its the right thing to do. It happened for a reason. My boyfriend was a mistake but the baby aint... I think my boyfriend cheats on me.. and I dont think hes there for me.. And maybe all he wanted to do was have sex. He calls me when he has nothing else to do... Like once a week. We only see eachother like once a week to every 2 weeks... Whats the point ? IT just hurts me... to know that the father of you kid wont be there for you. Hed rather live in seattle or california with his friend to find more firends that Stay with his girlfriend and his baby... I dont need him. But im just afraid of whats gonna happen with my parents and family....

Oya. 81 kids; Hollywood, Florida 25195 posts
1st Aug '08

congrats...........

Little Foots 1 child; Stockton, California 1494 posts
1st Aug '08

Good Luck to you and your little one!

Runαwαy Slave 1 child; New Orleans, Louisiana 65504 posts
1st Aug '08

Well you have to tell someone. I assume you have proper healthcare?

amy. 1 child; Spring, Texas 8436 posts
1st Aug '08

Good luck with everything. You should tell your parents ASAP. If you need advice on that look at the top of this part of the forum and there is a sticky!

Poofter. 1 child; Houston, Texas 47957 posts
1st Aug '08
Quoting Beanies Mom {Educated B}:
Mrs. O'Momma 3 kids; Brooklyn, New York 1781 posts
1st Aug '08
Quoting Allys.:
Evan and Isla's Mom 2 kids; Pennsylvania 12016 posts
1st Aug '08

Yep, your right, it only takes one time of unprotected sex to get preggers :) But good luck!

TaraBanana Crestline, California 3809 posts
1st Aug '08

congrats =D good luck with everything

Mrs. D 1 child; Alabama 10261 posts
1st Aug '08

Good luck.

MissAshley+2 Due October 12; TTC since Nov 2013; 34 kids; 2 angel babies; Quesnel, British Columbia 1405 posts
1st Aug '08

Me and my bf were together forrrr about 4-5 months before i got pregnant. And we had sex unprotected ALL the time.. haha... we were starting to think we couldn't get pregnant. But now we couldn't be happier. =] i love my little porker. I think since your dad drinks and your mom is crazy, you should confide in your brother. Because you don't know what your parents will do. It could turn dangerous.

iiii Due August 12; 2 kids; Loves Park, Illinois 2261 posts
1st Aug '08

Hi 16 and pregnant,
I'm Samantha.
Good luck with all.
Thanks for sharing.

Destiny and Jamilyn's Mom Due December 23; 18 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 1971 posts
1st Aug '08

good luck and congrats... it's not easy but it's well worth it!!

Screw off. 1 child; Colorado 2486 posts
1st Aug '08
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Vicki Lee 2 kids; Aumsville, Oregon 459 posts
1st Aug '08

my mother is also Bipolar and we went through some very hard times in my high school years so I feel for you there. You definitely need to get an appt with a doc though. Whereabouts in OR do you live? There are free pregnancy clinics in Salem if you're close and dont have insurance. Take care of yourself and try not to stress too much about how your parents will take it. It may just be a blessing to your family in disguise. Babies are always blessings.