im looking for a bit of encouragement tonight after a very shitty day. I had a second misscarriage last week and so many people have been like "oh do they know whats wrong with you? maybe one of you has a chromosome defect? maybe ...this...maybe...that? I was kind of going with the opinion of "Obviously the child we are meant to have just isnt ready to be born yet" i just think ive had bad luck and im hoping third time will be ok, so im just looking for some people who have had 2 miscarriages then gone on to have a healthy full term pregnancy after to tell me that it is possible its just bad luck. Thanks heaps everyone
Last year my mum went through 2 miscarriages and just 2-3weeks ago she gave birth to a beautiful baby girl (although this is her #6 -between #5 and #6 she had had the miscarriages) She carried her to 39weeks. :D
I wish you all the best and hope everything works out for you!
i had 2 miscarriages and gave birth to a beautiful baby boy 3 months ago
I've had two and now have a beautiful almost 7 month old girl, they do say third time is a charm :) And I'm wishing you lots ov luck and baby dust! :D
I know a few women who have had multiple miscarriages in a row and gone on to have healthy children afterwards. I myself have had two miscarriages this year, and know that it is very difficult. I also have had friends ask if the doctor's knew what was wrong with me. Do not feel defeated yet, I know it is hard. Miscarriages are so common, I know it does not make it any easier. People around you who may have no idea how you may be feeling can ask questions that just deepen the pain you have in your heart. They just may not fully understand how you are feeling. I know before I experienced it for myself, my compassion level for them was "lacking". I hope you find yourself comforted soon and may God bless.
Quoting Amba~TTC an 09 baby:
I hope I was of some help.
thanks to all the ladies who replied and congrats on all your beautiful children,you have definatly given me some hope that next time may be the right time :D
Yeah :) Good thread! Its given me hope!!! x*x
I always look at it this way, at least we can fall pregnant :) Some poor ladies cant :( Fingers crossed for everyone trying again after a loss x*x
I have had 2 previous miscarriages, and now I'm pregnant for the 3rd time. I'm now 6 months pregnant with a baby girl, and I'm so happy and feel blessed. Trust me, if it can happen to me after 2 miscarriages, then it WILL happen for you too! *hugs* Just pray to God to see you through it all. So far I haven't had any trouble or complications from this pregnancy, and I know that I'm NOT going to have any complications. I'm going to see this pregnancy through to the happy end! Remember that you just have to remain confident and have faith thatnothing will go wrong. I believe that you will have a successful pregnancy next time. *hugs* If you ever need someone to talk to, or just someone to listen to you, then I'm here for you. We all have to support each other through everything.
We had some complications at the beginning because of cramps I was getting they thought he was ectopic, but he wasn't and here he is! But the scared feeling of thinking I might lose him never went away for me, it was a constant the entire way through my pregnancy.