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Waterbury, Connecticut 792 posts
11th Dec '09
Quoting *~*Jessica*~*:
*~*Jessica*~* TTC since May 2013; 1 child; 2 angel babies; Illinois 287 posts
11th Dec '09
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Waterbury, Connecticut 792 posts
12th Dec '09
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Oxy Moron (BBM) 2 kids; Texas 2899 posts
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Waterbury, Connecticut 792 posts
17th Dec '09
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*Bradley&NataliesMommy* 18 kids; Odessa, Texas 2555 posts
20th Dec '09
Quoting Helen (Team Blue):
*Bradley&NataliesMommy* 18 kids; Odessa, Texas 2555 posts
20th Dec '09

wow, im amazed at how selfish the OP is being. im pro choice, but this is just wrong.
i spent 4 years TTC, and with my first pregnancy, the doctor told us that our daughter had renal agenesis, which means her kidneys didnt work, meaning low amniotic fluid, meaning her lungs wouldnt develop right, and that she would die soon after birth. i was given the choice to terminate, but chose not to. I chose to carry my daughter full term, and deliver her naturally, knowing that she would not live, and that i would have to bury her. im now pregnant with a little boy, and even if he had downs, i wouldnt care. when you love your child unconditionally, it doesnt matter if something is wrong with them. i truly beleive there are certain cases where abortion is ok, and understandable. but this is not one of them. at all. this is pure selfishness. how could you kill an innocent child because youre too weak to deal with having a special needs child? how can you live with yourself?
especially knowing there were people who would have been willing to love that little girl, downs or not, more than you ever could, or even claimed to. how could you take that away ? you disgust me, but most of all i feel pity for you, because one day, (if you make it to heaven) your gonna have to answer that little girl when she asks you why you killed her, and why you couldnt love her as much as your other children.