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user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
2nd Oct '09

yeaa but even if he did get excited, it doesnt always last.



my ex (sons father) was sooo excited until he realized hed actually have to become a responsible person.



he was a freakin loser.

LynseyLoo 32 kids; Mississippi 189 posts
2nd Oct '09
Quoting Joeys Momma!:
user banned 2 kids; Bat Cave, North Carolina 64587 posts
2nd Oct '09
Quoting LynseyLoo:
LynseyLoo 32 kids; Mississippi 189 posts
2nd Oct '09
Quoting Joeys Momma!:
Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42788 posts
2nd Oct '09

I do know, because I want another baby but I'm not in the position to have one.

5 years ago when I aborted? Hell no.

* North Carolina 184 posts
2nd Oct '09
Quoting LynseyLoo:
LynseyLoo 32 kids; Mississippi 189 posts
2nd Oct '09
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brittberryumyum 4 kids; Martin, Ohio 10046 posts
2nd Oct '09

I don't feel jealous.
If I thought I would feel jealous, I wouldn't have gone through with the procedure. You have plenty of time for babies, so don't sweat it, you're young so enjoy yourself now while your responsibilities are limited!

starr0908child Due September 7; 1 child; Gilbert, Arizona 1402 posts
3rd Oct '09
Quoting Ninja Shahinda {30+}:
Triciaranae Due April 18; 2 kids; Minnesota 143 posts
4th Oct '09

I'm sorry that you are going through this. I wouldn't feel bad about how you feel about your friend I think just recognize that it's part of the grieving process. It's hard not to let your mind wander to the what ifs but everyone is right, you are so young and have so much you can do with your life.



The next person you choose to be with will hopefully be a better man. There is no other decision in your life as important as choosing your future spouse. BE PICKY!!!

XoTristons MommyXo 1 child; Florida 18 posts
4th Oct '09

when my little sister was 15 she got pregnant with a guy that she had been with for almost a year & the same guy she lost her v card to.she wanted to keep it but he didnt. we found out that they had actually been "trying" to have a baby.guess he decided that he didnt want the baby anymore once reality struck in. my mom wanted her to kepp it so bad and tried to force her but my sister was so in love with the guy that she went & got an abortion.i cried so hard.they later broke up.the abortion ruined there relationship& made my sister kind of "mental".she tried commititting suicide& would cutt herself.than she resorted to something that devastated us all. she would sleep with guys "trying" to get pregnant but it just didnt work.it was the saddest thing i had ever seen.when i found out i was pregnant i felt of all things guilty.i felt like i had stollen something from my sister.i knew she was jealouS&hurt but now she is better. she is excited for my baby. she is in a serious relationship&is not sleeping around anymorei love my little sisterwith all my heart. she still hasnt been able to get pregnant. she believes god is punishing her but i try to convince her otherwise.



*so i think in a huge wayy that most girls that get an abortion with it not really being there choice will feel that "jealous" feeling. stay strong* <3ash

LynseyLoo 32 kids; Mississippi 189 posts
4th Oct '09
Quoting XoConners MomXo:
LynseyLoo 32 kids; Mississippi 189 posts
4th Oct '09
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MAMA MEXi 2 kids; Richmond, Texas 2841 posts
5th Oct '09

UMMM...I really have no advice...besides that I hope you feel better....jealousy is not a good character to hold. It kind of sucks that you didn't have someone to support you...I do know that feeling. My boyfriend that I live with now wasn't really sure about keeping the baby.....so it made me unsure....I know the feeling of wanting something and then having your mind made up so the person won't be upset or decide to leave. However once we told my mom (she kind of figured it on her own) then we were both so excited to keep the baby. Now my [entire] family including his knows and they all are extremely supportive and want us to get married (although Im not ready for that). My boyfriend has not missed one doc. appointment, he talks to the baby in spanish when it hurts me, and helps me so much throughout the day. I dont think I could live without him not supporting me. So in a way I could see how you feel this way because there are many women that dont have support, and here it is my boyfriend rubs my belly every morning and tells me how much he lovves the both of us. But I agree with other women...maybe the guy you were with was not right for you and that God will place someone in your life that will appreciate the life you are bringing.:D