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im 8 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend left me MaSoN MoMmY Due August 22; Arkansas 13 posts
10th Jan '10

hello my name is toshia im 19 years old. I got pregnant by mistake but i am keeping the baby. Once my boyfriend found out i am keeping it he left me. He told me that he wants nothing to do with me and that this baby isnt his. But yet before he was all in love with me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me now its totally diff. I really need help. Somebody please give me some advice about what i should do..

Viktorya 3 kids; Michigan 40078 posts
10th Jan '10

Wait. If he loves you and your unborn child and is worth any of your time at all he will come back. If not, you don't need him. You will do fine as a single mom.

Made In Italy ♥ 34 kids; Windsor, Ontario 17625 posts
10th Jan '10

forget him and move on , not much you can do .

Brittany ♥ Viggo 1 child; Michigan 3112 posts
10th Jan '10

Forget about him. Any man that tells you he doesn't want to be a part of yours and your child's life isn't worth your worrying or tears.

*Proud Lesbian Mommy* MAM 5 kids; New York 16715 posts
10th Jan '10

Keep your head up, do what you have to do, keep all your dr appointments. Eat right and dont take pregnancy as a disability. Your BD might come around and he might not so just stay strong.

Halpert 3 kids; Ohio 34411 posts
10th Jan '10
Quoting Brittany [+ Baby Boy!]:
Brayce Miles 1 child; Maria, Quebec 2357 posts
10th Jan '10

you dont need a man to raise a child... my bf left me when i was 22 weeks pregnant... you can do it without him!!

Tommy's Mommy 1 child; Chicago, Illinois 6877 posts
10th Jan '10

Let him leave. It's his loss. My ex did the same thing... he was all "I love you I want to be with you blah blah blah" until I told him I was pregnant. I haven't seen him since. But my son is amazing... and surprisingly, he doesn't make me think about his father really at all. I only think about it when someone else brings it up.



Good luck and feel free to PM me if you want.

Wildflower ♥ Due March 24 (girl); 17 kids; Georgia 5714 posts
10th Jan '10

Then you and your baby are better off without him ! Trust me girl !

Kristina [Mommy to 2 Prin 17 kids; Bend, Oregon 1648 posts
10th Jan '10

Your little one is going to precious. He doesn't sound like he is worth your time. Its hard sometimes but there is no need to sit in idle for someone like that. Best of luck.

Sora's Mommy♥ 1 child; Ohio 1979 posts
10th Jan '10
Quoting Viktorya:
Double The Trouble Due May 11 (boy); 1 child; New Hampshire 1084 posts
10th Jan '10
Quoting Toshia Michele:
MaSoN MoMmY Due August 22; Arkansas 13 posts
10th Jan '10

thank you all so much i feel so much better talking to women who have children or are pregnant b/c none of my friends really understand......but i also have another question what am i supposed to drink while pregnant i know i cant have caffine but is like gatorade and powerade ok to drink im so new to all of this

Double The Trouble Due May 11 (boy); 1 child; New Hampshire 1084 posts
10th Jan '10
Quoting Toshia Michele:
Iyahna :^P Southern California, CA, United States 13250 posts
10th Jan '10

Cant trust those boys.. My ex did the same shit. fuck him your child is the only thing that matters at this point. it may hurt but stay strong.