Mama Van D 2454 Posts | Joined BG: Jun 03, 2012 Last Visit: 4 months ago
Age 21
Gender Female
Status Married
Location Unity, Maine
Kids 18
My name is Jill. I'm 20 and live in Unity, Maine with my husband Kurtis and our son KJ. I'm currently working full time and Kurtis is a SAHD, but we're both hoping that soon he'll be able to find a job so I can get one closer to home that doesn't make me want to rip my hair out. I also have a stepdaughter named Lilli. Kurtis' ex, whom he was with for 4 years, claimed that someone else was the father and put the other guy on the BC, so Kurtis has been fighting for over a year in court to see her. Hopefully soon we'll get joint custody of her so he can make up for lost time and get to know his little girl.

Feel free to ask me about:
Incompetent cervix
Step parenting
Pregnancy loss
Parental rights court process
Or just about anything!

We lost our daughter, our first child, on October 11th, 2011 because of my incompetent cervix. I was 21 weeks 4 days, and she weighed 1 pound 6 ounces. Her name was Regan Claire.
Kurtis and I got married on March 31st, 2012. :]
Our son's first picture! This was taken at 9 weeks, 1 day.

And here he is again, 21 weeks 3 days...

This was me at 28 weeks 3 days. :]

Finally! Kurtis Jr. was born on October 1st, 2012. He was exactly 2 weeks early, weighed 8lb. 8oz., and was 21in. long. I was very proud of myself for going naturally with no epidural, there was definitely a point during labor where I almost gave in!

He is absolutely perfect. <3

Having some daddy time!

This kid just keeps getting bigger and bigger! This is at 9

He's quite the goof ball...

As you can see. :P

He also LOVES tubby time!

This is Kurtis and Lilli the first time they'd seen each other since the day she was born. She was 16 months here.

The first time KJ got to meet his big sister. :)

My wonderful, crazy husband...

And our furbaby Diesel!
I have to add this picture, just because he's so handsome!