Mommy2Malykai 2021 Posts | Joined BG: Apr 27, 2008 Last Visit: 3 years ago
Age 29
Gender Female
Status Married
Work Photographer
Location Milford, Delaware
Interest Road Trips, cleaning, playing with the boys, swimming, photography, New York, Connecticut, Military, Navy, Air Force
Kids 3
I truly pity those who have nothing better to do than sit on Baby Gaga/Facebook/(any social media site) all day and stir up drama. You know the ones. The catty ladies who feel the need to make snide remarks on every other post and argue someones opinion. Don't like the way someone is raising their child? Well, it's a good thing YOU aren't responsible for their child or their choices. Get offline and raise your own YOUR WAY! It's just a public forum, take it with a grain of salt and get off your high horse. Everyone has an opinion so if you post, expect to hear their opinions and do with them what you want!

I'm Heather, 26 year old Navy Veteran, new wife, Proud Mommy, to Malykai and step-mom to Tyler & Craig. I am my children's parent first and their friend second. I don't hold back on raising my children just because you think I should baby them. I know what damage it will cause if I let them skate through life with no sense of right and wrong or give them no responsibility. Don't like it? That's fine, they're not your kids.


I am divorced and have learned that there is, in fact, life after divorce... a great life, to be exact. I can honestly say that I have never been happier!

I am a strong, open-minded, thoughtful, caring individual who has been through and overcome a great deal in my life.
I'm an inked, dyed, pierced member of society and although I may look "funny" to you, don't be so quick to judge. I'll also be among the first to open a door for you or pick up something you've dropped. I'm respectful and I mind my manners but, don't take this to mean I'm a doormat for, that I am not.
I will speak my mind and make my point made. I try to be someone my child(ren) will be proud of.

Where am I?
I was born and raised in Delaware. After graduating, I joined the Navy and moved to IL for boot camp, MS for "A" School, and got out of the Navy. I've also lived in Washington State and California but, Malykai and I now reside back in Delaware among our family & friends.


The things that I have been through, in my life are why I am the way I am.
I don't, however, dwell on the negative things that I have gone through. Rather I acknowledge that I have overcome them and look onto the positive that has occurred and has yet to present itself to me. I know that, with God, I can overcome anything life throws at me!


Don't joke about things that could harm a child, it's not funny. Children are a gift from God and should be treated as such!