my3sonsRHS 8 Posts | Joined BG: Aug 19, 2009 Last Visit: 2 years ago
Hello Ladies my name is Denise.
I have 2 wonderful boys ( Rylan(4) & Hunter (2) ) My husband & I have been married for 4 years & have experienced a lot of heart ache during our relationship. In 2006 we became pregnant & at 12wks found out we had a MOLAR pregnancy- which that was an ordeal to go threw. Then a year later became pregnant with our oldest. At 39 weeks they were inducing me, & im glad they did, he went into fetal distress & by the time he was out his heart rate was in the 60's he was wrapped 6 times in his cord. 19months later we welcomed another son with no complications. Feb 2011, when I was 10wks pregnant I had a missed miscarriage. Dec 2011 @ 6wks I suffered a natural miscarriage. In March 2012 we became pregnant again- finding out that my uterus was tilted- likely from c section & scar tissue, but we were afraid this was causing the miscarriages. We made in threw the 1st trimester, only spotted once at 9wks. Made it threw 2nd trimester no big concerns. I had severe morning sickness & heart burn but I refused medicines to help. We found out it was another boy- SHAYNE REED who was due November 13,2012 but On August 28, 2012 while getting monitored, Shayne started showing signs of fetal distress. Talk about being there at the right time- I had Placenta Abruption & we both became distressed. After 40 mins from his first crash under 100's he was born with heart rate of 60's. From what they have told me, he was born breech, crying, alert & moving around. BUT they could not bring his heart rate up. They worked on him for 32 mins when he went to go be with GOD. I still think they should have done more, that he should be here. I really need to talk to other moms who have experienced such a loss, because I feel so lost. Im grieving for my baby boy & yet still need to suck it up & raise our other 2 boys.
RIP SHAYNE REED mommy loves you so much & cant wait til we are together again. Til I can hold you & love you like I should be doing right now....
Is this the first child?: nope
Is this the first child?: No
Are you all still together? yes
What day did you find out you were pregnant?: end of june
How did you feel when you found out?: excited & nervous
Who was with you?: nobody
How did the daddy react?: he was shocked but happy
How did you parents react?: happy about it
How did his parents react?: thrilled
How often do they call to check on you?: almost every day
ABOUT THE PREGNANCY
When is your due date?: feb 25- scheduled for feb 19
How far along are you right now?: 15 1/2 weeks
Have you had an ultra sound?:yes
Have you heard the heartbeat?:yes
SEX OF BABY
What do you want. Boy or Girl?: i didnt care.
Do you know what you are having now?: its a boy
Are you happy with what you are having?: i am
ABOUT THE BIRTH
Who is going to be with you?: kenny
Are you going to video tape it?: no
Natural or medicated?:medicated
Do you think you will have a c-section?: i dont want one, but i have to have it:(
Do you think you will cry when you first hold your baby?: yah
Do you know what you will say to the baby when you first hold it?:tell him i love him
Are you scared about the labor?: yes
Do you have a name picked out?: Kayden
Is your baby going to be named after anyone?: middle name for his great grandfather
Did the daddy help pick the name?: ofcorse
Where was your baby conceived?:in our bed most likely
Have you felt the baby move?: yes. he kicked my husband the other night.
What was your first symptom?: missed period, tiredness, sore b**bs
Will you have godparents?: yes
Who will be the god mommy?: samantha
Who will be the god daddy?: jordan
What is the baby