Alisa Intactivist 466 Posts | Joined BG: Feb 05, 2010 Last Visit: 1 year ago
Age 29
Gender Female
Status Married
Location Lansdale, Pennsylvania
Kids 18

Mommy to 2 adorable little boys who stole my heart... Sebastian Henry & Desmond James <3

My husband & I got married in 2009 after 2 years of dating & we weren't planning on having children for a few years... but we conceived our first son while on our honeymoon (I was on birth control at the time).

We were shocked, needless to say; our whole world got flipped upside down. I was focusing on finishing my bachelor's degree, we had just bought our first house.

But he didn't ruin our future.... he gave us a new one. He's just proof that when something is meant to happen, it will. We are so in love with him, and now that he's here we can't imagine why we wanted to wait!

Sebastian was born on June 27th, 2010 (his due date!) at 6 a.m. after 10 hours of natural labor... no induction, IVs, epidural or interventions; he weighed 8 pounds, 2 ounces at birth.

I suffered an early miscarriage on October 29th, 2011 - some people call this a Chemical Pregnancy and don't see it as a "baby" but the loss was devastating to me nonetheless, especially since we had been TTC. Mommy loves you, Little Pea.


After almost a year of trying (and my miscarriage), I got pregnant with our newest little peanut, Desmond James. He was born on January 15th, 2013 (2 days after his due date) after almost 15 hours of labor... he was 7 pounds and like his big brother, I was able to birth him naturally without interventions; this time I was able to go to a birthing center, and we went home with him 3 hours after his delivery!

My guys get along wonderfully -- they are both high energy, very cuddly and extremely goofy! Husband & I are trying to figure out if we're done having kids but for now we are enjoying the little ones we have. :)