How does a woman tell if a man will satisfy as a husband and dad just by looking at him? The average person might think that only a psychic would be able to tell you what a person is like in the bedroom. They might ask how it would be possible to know what goes on inside someone’s mind and what they would be like behind closed doors. However, personality experts and psychologists have pointed out the signs that can tell us what kind of personality a man has.
Of course, everyone has their own unique personality, but there are some common traits that many dads share. We have the extrovert dads who love to socialize and meet new people, while introvert dads prefer to keep to themselves and are generally shy. Then there are dads who love living on the edge and seek danger and thrills, while there are others who prefer to play it safe.
Below are 15 ways to know just that. While this may not be one hundred percent scientifically accurate, the information is based on various psychological studies. Read on and next time you meet a dad, you might be able to easily figure out whether he will satisfy!
15 He Is An Extrovert And Loves To Socialize
One easy way of knowing if dad will satisfy mom is watching how he socializes with other people. Various studies have shown that extroverts are much more likely to be wild in bed than introverts. They may have a hedonistic attitude towards sex and like to experiment with new things. Instead of seeking instant gratification, these dads are likely to spend much more time on foreplay and focusing on trying to please their partners.
Researchers have also found that the more friendly a person is, the more likely they are to try and make their partner comfortable in bed. However, this does not mean that every Russel Brand in the group will be wild. There are other signs, aspects of his body language, that can also indicate how wild he might be. But an outgoing dad is definitely more likely to offer ultimate satisfaction.
14 If He Has A Good Body And Exercises Regularly
Look at his body. Does he look fit and does he make sure to do some physical exercise at least a few days a week? We do not need the experts to tell us that someone who does not look physically fit may be less able to satisfy. Those who do not stay in shape might be too lazy while weaker men may lack the stamina to make it last.
But this does not mean that only those who look like Dwayne Johnson can be wild. The average dad who does some light exercise can also be exceedingly wild in bed. Studies have also shown that overweight people can also have higher levels of a hormone called MSH. This produces more endorphins and increases their desires. So the moral of this story is, larger dads are more likely to rock in the bedroom.
13 He’s Got A Flexible Thumb
What does the thumb have to do with a man’s performance as a husband? Plenty, say the experts. It was a belief among the ancient Chinese that if a man has a flexible thumb than he is more likely to be a lover who is adventurous in the bedroom. The more rigid a dad’s thumb the more likely he is to be straight and conservative.
See if the dad in question can pull away his thumb from the main body of his palm. If he flexes and bends his thumb easily it signifies that he is willing to bend over backward to make things exciting in the bedroom. A large, long, and heavy thumb may signify that he likes to take control in the bedroom and has a huge amount of sexual energy. So keep an eye on the thumb next time you see a dad.
12 He Drives Fast
Some say you can tell if a dad is going to satisfy mom. If he is hasty and drives recklessly, then he may not be very considerate in bed. A speeding driver who wants to reach his destination fast craves instant gratification. A dad like that may also be too hurried in the bedroom. However, if he drives fast and maneuvers with skill and precision it means that he knows how to make the ride enjoyable.
At the same time, you might also want to look at the type of car a dad is driving. A flashy sports car means he is showy and possibly thinks too much of his appearance. Such dads are not that wild in the bedroom and might think only about their form. If a dad has both form and substance then he is more likely to be wild.
11 He Has Loopy Handwriting
Handwriting experts say that an individual’s personality can be revealed in the way he or she writes. So, another excellent way of telling if dad is wild in the bedroom is to scrutinize his handwriting. The main thing you have to focus on is the letters that are written with a loop, like “y” and “g.” If a person writes the lowercase “y” with a rounded loop that returns to the baseline then he likely has a healthy sex life.
If the loop is written with a flourishing tail, then the person has a high libido and lots of imagination. Strong pen pressure that has long and wide lower loops would also indicate strong sex drive. Such a person gets bored easily and has an active imagination which livens up his activities. Low pen pressure with unfinished loops indicates a low level of confidence and low sex drive.
10 He Likes To Sample New Things
You can tell what a dad might be like in the bedroom by his willingness to try new things. Does he like to try out a new dish in the restaurant or just stick to his regular order? If you cook using a new recipe, how willing would he be to try it out despite what it looks like? Experts say that if a dad likes sampling new things, that is a sign of him likely being able to satisfy in other ways.
If a dad does not like to try out new things, then he could be a conservative in the bedroom. Being wild does not mean that one goes all Fifty Shades of Grey, but you would definitely expect a new adventure from time to time. So, if a dad likes to explore, and is inquisitive and adventurous, then be assured he may not be so inhibited in the bedroom.
9 He Has A Straight Posture
Have you looked closely at the way people sit, stand, or walk? Have you noticed how many of them are slouched down? That some lean back while others walk with a straight back? Looking at the posture of a dad can reveal what he would be like in the bedroom. Those dads who have an erect posture are more likely to be wild than those who are hunched over or stand with a swayed back.
Good posture not only indicates that the person is confident and sure of himself, it also means that he is capable of making an effort. Slouching down while walking or standing is indicative of a lazy dad who will be dull in the bedroom. If a dad stands with his shoulders back and tummy in, it means he has a healthy sex drive and can perform extremely well in the bedroom.
8 He’s A Great Dancer
The way a dad dances can definitely tell us what he might be like in the bedroom, according to anthropologists. Dance and copulation have similarities and experts say that the way one performs in one is indicative of the other. If a person dances well that means he has both the shape and energy to do so. Most likely, he will also make the same effort in the bedroom.
If a dad is shy and does not want to dance, then is indicative of being inhibited in bed as well. Imagine a straight up bedroom routine with these types of dads. On the other hand, if a dad claims all the spotlight in the dance floor, he is too showy and might be selfish in the bedroom too. The wild ones are those who share a perfect rhythm with their partners and know how to have fun.
7 He’s Got A Good Appetite And Is Passionate About Food
Another easy way to knowing if dad is wild in bed is to look at out how he eats his food. Does he gulp down his food? Is he in a hurry to finish breakfast and rush off to work? What type of food does he like? Knowing the answer to these questions will let you know pretty much what he would be like in the bedroom. The wild ones often have a good appetite and are passionate about their food.
Experts have long known of a link between food and sex. Both are sensual cravings from which the body derives gratification. If eating is just a chore to a dad, then he will most likely be boring in the bedroom. The way a person chooses to satisfy one urge is likely the same as the way he deals with the other.
6 He Makes Hand Gestures While Talking
According to psychologists, hand gestures can tell us a great many things about the sexual personality of an individual. While he is talking, look closely at his hands and you will be able to tell what kind of a lover this person will be in the bedroom. A dad who gestures with his hand while talking is likely to be racier. If he uses his hands to make a sweeping gesture then it shows that he is a sensual person and will perform in the bedroom.
Some dads keep their hand to their side while talking. This is a sign that he is reserved and may be tedious in the bedroom as well. Also, men who fidget or fiddle with their hands do not have a good record in the bedroom. Swaying hands while talking is a sign that this dad has imagination and creativity.
5 He Loves To Take Risk
Experts say that those dads who are wild with mom when they're alone are also wild outside of the bedroom. These dads like living on the edge and are not afraid of taking risks. Whether it is about taking risks in a new business venture, or skydiving, or walking across a shaky bridge in the middle of the jungle, the wild dads are ready to take the risk. For them, fear is like a natural aphrodisiac which they constantly seek out in their life.
Those who enjoy taking risks are adventurous both outside and inside the bedroom as well. For them, a thrill is like a turn-on that pumps them up in their everyday life. So next time you see a dad who likes to take risks and is a thrill seeker, you know exactly what he will be like in the bedroom.
4 He Is Confident But Does Not Brag
Dads who show confidence in their lives are also likely to be confident in the bedroom. They know what they want and they also know how to go about getting what they want. Confidence exudes a certain charm in a man that promises intrigue and mystery in the bedroom. Dads who are confident are bound to be more capable of satisfying their roles and husband and dad than those with low self-esteem.
But experts say that we should be cautious about a dad who is overconfident and brags about his exploits. It is okay to be proud of one’s achievements but not up to the point that the achievement is constantly bragged about. Those dads are inclined to be showy and think only about themselves. A dad who is a little wilder would like his partner to know, however, he would not like to advertise that fact to a wider audience.
3 He Grooms Himself Well
Look at the way dads groom themselves. Does he take the time to look good? What does he smell like? What kind of clothes does he wear? How does he cut his hair? All this can give you an indication of what a dad will be like in the bedroom. A dad who makes an effort to look well-groomed is most likely someone who makes an effort to perform well in the bedroom. It means they may have high self-esteem and will take the effort to please their partners in the bedroom.
While the well-groomed dad who takes care of his appearance has confidence, over-grooming can signal a different ball game altogether. Those who look prettier than their spouses may be prone to be self-obsessed. These dads will most likely think only about themselves and not be mindful of their partners.
2 He Is Charming And Makes Eye Contact
Can charm be learned or cultivated? Some people say that one either has charm or one does not, charm cannot be acquired. Whatever the case may be, know that a charming person who can make even strangers swoon over him will be a stellar man to have around. His charm does not come solely from his appearance but also from what he can do with his other faculties. Charming dads are likeable to their partners and may regard themselves as a player, thus unleashing their wild side.
Charming dads will make eye contact with their partners often. Notice the meaningful smile and the starry eyes as they promise a thrilling experience. Partners can be drawn into the dreamy eyes of a charming person. Combined with other aspects of body language, charm is one of the most definitive indicators of what dad is like in the bedroom.
1 He Is Generous With His Money
One more way of knowing if a dad will deliver is every way is to find out how he deals with his money. Is he generous with his money or is he stingy? How much does he tip the waiter? Studies have found that a generous person is more likely to enjoy the pleasures in life and therefore handle himself well in the bedroom. But if he shows off his money then he may also try to show off in bed.
A stingy dad thinks only about himself and will not make a good partner in the bedroom. He will most likely have inhibitions about sexual activities and may not be open to new ideas. On the other hand, a dad who likes to spend his money will inevitably have a wild streak that will emerge in the bedroom as well.