15Crazy Changes In Drive
Most couples find themselves in a strange new territory during pregnancy. The scenario you hear about most is the husband with floods of testosterone pumping, while his wife wants nothing to do with getting physical. I was in the more rare camp where my guy was weirded out by the
thought of our little addition being in the room and filled with the stress of planning for baby. While I felt sexy and confident, he felt uncertain and anxious. Whatever sexual state you find yourselves in as a couple, take comfort in knowing things will probably normalize once the newborn days are over.
Try to imagine what your partner is going through and have empathy during these uncertain times. No two people are the same and you can’t expect your partner to be like anyone you have heard or read about. Having a baby on the way is a big deal and it’s totally normal to have feelings of uncertainty.