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15 Whisper Confessions Of Women Who Got Pregnant On The Pill

Millions of women are on birth control. However, 8 to 10 percent of women still get manage to get pregnant while using contraception.

There are millions of women around the world taking birth control. Many of us are taught safe sex practices when we are in our teens. It is ingrained in us to prevent pregnancy until we are ready. Which usually means we are married, or at least in a stable, loving relationship.

It doesn't always happen that way though. Even taking birth control, a woman can still get pregnant. Sometimes things are just meant to be. Life has a plan for us, and sometimes we just have to go along with it.We have choices though. A woman who gets pregnant while taking the pill is most likely trying to prevent pregnancy. If she does not want the baby she could have an abortion or give the baby up for adoption.

Many women who have gotten pregnant on the pill see it as something that is meant to be. I got pregnant with my daughter while on birth control and let me say, it was a huge surprise! The only option for me was to have her. It was meant to be, or that's how I saw it. 8-10% of women on birth control each year will end up pregnant. I am sure they were all just as surprised as I was.

15 The Wrong Way To Prevent Pregnancy

It took this woman 5 pregnancy tests and a visit to her doctor to confirm she was pregnant. She was in disbelief and says he is scared now. When one is not expecting become a mom anytime soon and tries to prevent making a baby, it is definitely scary to find out she is expecting.

Many of us like to wait for the "right" time to do major things in life, like having a child. However, as we live and get older, sometimes we find that there is not always a right time for anything. A pretty normal reaction is to be fearful of change and major life changes. It is the way many people feel. I was scared when I found out about my pregnancy too.

14 Wishful Thinking

This mom to possibly be is hoping to miscarry. Everyone is against her having an abortion, even though she got pregnant while on the pill and using a condom. I think that this is once in a lifetime occurrence and she should have the baby. Despite the odds, she still got pregnant. That just screams "Meant to be!". The woman doesn't seem to think so.

She surely has a million thoughts and questions running through her mind. It is a scary thing, to become pregnant unexpectedly, or at the "wrong" time of one's life. She says she hopes she miscarries... I wonder if she realizes what that pain would feel like? Fear makes people say and do things they may learn to regret.

13 Life And Death

This woman had quite an interesting and emotional day, to say the least. She went to the doctor and found out she was pregnant, and it happened while she was taking birth control. Not only did the doctor tell her of her pregnancy, he told her she was having a miscarriage. The writer does not say whether she wanted the baby or not, but she does say she never told her ex.

I can't even imagine the emotional toll she went through that day. If she wanted a baby she had a moment of happiness only to be told in the next that she was having a miscarriage. If she did not want the baby, well it was still surely a taxing day.

12 The Lucky Ticket

Well, this woman says she got pregnant on the Mirena IUD and then again on the pill and she should start playing the lotto. I agree with her! The odds are definitely in her favor, at least when it comes to getting knocked up while on birth control! It is always shocking to find out about an unplanned pregnancy, especially while on the pill, or some other form of contraceptive. Then to have it happen a second time is doubly shocking!

She should go to the casino, play the lotto, and if she wants another baby she just stay on birth control. It seems to make her more fertile. I am a firm believer in things happening for a reason. And this just confirms my belief.

11 When Friends With Benefits Goes Awry

Finding out about an unexpected pregnancy, despite one's efforts o prevent it, can cause one to do much soul searching. She will have to figure out what she needs and wants to do. What is the best choice for this woman?

Having the baby and raising a child is a huge decision and it can be difficult. Having an abortion seems easy but comes with a variety of emotions that simply do not go away over night. Adoption also can bring on extreme emotions for the mom giving her child up for a better life.

No matter what, the decision is left to the mom. And she just has to hope and pray she makes the right one. It is a big decision to have to make.

10 Life Isn't Always Fair

It simply isn't fair that there are so many people who want kids and can't have them. Then there are so many who do not want kids and get pregnant so easily.

The woman confessing says she got pregnant while on the pill and recently found out her friend has PCOS. PCOS makes it incredibly difficult for a woman to conceive. The woman posting says she does not want kids and her friend has always wanted kids. She wishes they could trade places, which is sweet.

Life can be unkind, to put it lightly. Sometimes the things we want the most we will never get. And the things we get may not be what we wanted, but sometimes they are just what we really needed and didn't even know it.

9 The Favourite Child

This mother of two says she pays more attention to her daughter, who was planned than she does to her son who was not planned. She was on birth control at the time he was conceived, which she implies may be the reason she gave her daughter more attention.

She ends it saying she still loves him though. Some parents have a favorite, even though they deny it. She obviously favors her daughter, simply because she was planned and her son was not.

It doesn't seem right, but hopefully, by the time the son is older, she won't resent him for getting pregnant with him while on the pill. If he does see the difference, there will be some tension in that family.

8 Haters Will Always Hate

This woman became pregnant with twins while on birth control. She says people judged her for keeping the babies, and now she and her twins are on welfare and she is a single mom still begin judged by others. At the end of the day, it was her decision. She is the one left to deal with her choices and she chose to keep her babies. The fact that people judge that is wrong.

People should learn to mind their own business. It isn't up to her neighbour or friends to judge her for keeping her babies, simply because they were unexpected because she was on the pill. The mom may have chosen a hard path for herself and kids, but she chose right for her and her twins.

7 The Biggest Regret

This woman is a mom of two and she became pregnant while on birth control and had an abortion. She's never felt more regret and thinks about it every day. Now certainly her hands were full with the two children she has, and we don't know the whole story. But at one point in time, the abortion made the most sense. Sometimes decisions made in a great state of emotion are things we come to regret.

Abortion is a topic of great dispute. Many times we don't hear about the regret and pain a woman feels afterward. It is not a decision that should ever be made lightly. Nobody knows how they will feel after the abortion. And sadly, for this woman, she is constantly regretting her decision.

6 When Pregnancy Leads To Divorce

A woman says she became pregnant despite using the pill, and now her HUSBAND wants to file for divorce because he never wanted kids. Seriously? Does he not understand that a married couple will always run the risk of pregnancy unless they are fixed or sterile?

How could he even think that leaving the woman he married, so I am assuming he loves her, is the right move to make? Which he obviously had something to do with the pregnancy, so it looks like he is just trying to bail.

Many people never wanted to kids, but end up so happy they have them. It seems extremely selfish on his part. He could at least be open to a discussion before bailing on his wife.

5 A Woman's Choice

She is on birth control and still got pregnant, she confesses. She says " I guess I'm getting an abortion" she states. She obviously tried to prevent her pregnancy from happening, so she did not want a baby. However, she is old enough to realize her actions can have consequences. Despite someone's best efforts at protection, accidents still occur.

Having an abortion is a big decision to make, for many anyway.

This woman seems to be unphased by it and hopefully, it stays that way. That way she does not have to live a life of regret over the way she dealt with her unplanned pregnancy while on the pill. If one is truly against getting pregnant, they should educate themselves better on the protection methods out there.

4 Blessing In Disguise

The woman writing this may have given birth to the doctor that will cure cancer or something else extremely great. The baby was conceived despite the fact that the parents used a condom and the mom was on the pill. And the mom even says her daughter was the best thing to ever happen to her. Which is so sweet and the sentiment of many mamas across the globe.

It must have come as a great shock to find out she was pregnant, despite their effort to prevent pregnancy. Sometimes things happen in life, despite our best efforts, and those things turn out to be exactly what we need. No matter what, sometimes, life has a different plan for us than what we had planned.

3 Mom's Best Kept Secret

Here we have another woman who got pregnant while on the pill and used a condom. She says her baby will never know it wasn't wanted. She is keeping the baby, which is fantastic. Despite her efforts to prevent it, the baby was meant to be. She was meant to be that babies mom. And she is already wanting to protect her baby from anything which could hurt him or her.

It is pretty crazy to think about. Becoming pregnant while using a condom and birth control. How can that even happen? It seems so far fetched, or something that doesn't happen but once in a blue moon. Obviously, it is happening much more often than people are aware of.

2 5 Pregnancy Tests Later

It took this woman 5 pregnancy tests and a visit to her doctor to confirm she was pregnant. She was in disbelief and says he is scared now. When one is not expecting become a mom anytime soon and tries to prevent making a baby, it is definitely scary to find out she is expecting.

Many of us like to wait for the "right" time to do major things in life, like having a child. However, as we live and get older, sometimes we find that there is not always a right time for anything. A pretty normal reaction is to be fearful of change and major life changes. It is the way many people feel. I was scared when I found out about my pregnancy too.

1 The Wrong Decision

This is a sad one to read. The mom became pregnant while taking the pill. Her boyfriend (at the time) convinced her to keep it, despite her not wanting it. Now, he is uninvolved and she is left alone raising a baby she did not want to begin with. That is simply a sucky situation.

She must have wanted the baby somewhat to have kept it and be swayed by her boyfriend into keeping it. It makes a person wonder why he wanted her to keep the baby if he was just going to bail anyway. Now the mom and the baby have a harder road ahead of them. The mom had some say so in this, it does take 2 to tango!

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