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5 Reasons To Decide On A Name In Advance (& 5 To Wait Until You Meet Your Baby)

When you’re trying to figure out the right name for your new baby, there are a lot of things you have to think about. One of the biggest concerns is whether or not you need to have a name already picked out before the baby is born or if you should wait until after your baby arrives to give them a name. Of course, there is no right or wrong answer. This is a personal decision and depends on what you feel is right for you and your family.

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However, to help you decide, we’ve put together a list of the five reasons why you should pick a name in advance and the five why you should wait until your baby is born.

10 ADVANCE: IF YOU LIKE A PLAN, YOU’LL FEEL LESS STRESSED THIS WAY

When it comes to having a baby, there are a lot of things that you just can’t prepare for. No matter how much planning you do, there are just some things you can’t plan for.

If you have a personality that likes to plan things ahead of time and get things done, deciding on your baby’s name beforehand will likely put your mind at ease. This is one thing that you can do that will cut down on your stress about the entire process.

9 WAIT: YOU CAN GET TO KNOW YOUR BABY AND PICK A NAME THAT FITS

One of the biggest reasons to wait to give your baby a name until they are born is that you can get a feel for what suits them. Before your baby is born, the name might just feel like an abstract concept.

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After the baby's birth, the process will seem more real as you’ll be able to visualize calling your new child using that name. You can get a better feel for their personality and pick a name that seems to fit just right.

8 ADVANCE: IF YOU ALREADY HAVE A NAME YOU LOVE, THERE’S NO NEED TO WAIT

For some people, they already have a name they’ve loved for years. If there is a name that you have always wanted to give to your child, and you’re sure of it, there’s no sense in waiting.

You don’t necessarily need to wait until your newborn is here to know that it’s the right name. If you have a name you love, you’re not likely to change your mind after the birth.

7 WAIT: YOU’LL FEEL LESS PRESSURE

Having a name already decided on beforehand can make some parents feel a lot of pressure. You might feel stressed about needing to know a name and have something picked out right away.

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If this makes you anxious, remember there is no need to place the extra pressure on yourself. There is no problem with waiting until after you have your baby in your arms to give them a name.

6 ADVANCE: IT’S ONE THING YOU CAN CONTROL

There are many things out of your control when it comes to pregnancy, childbirth, and parenting. You can make a birth plan, but this won’t always go exactly according to plan.

You can learn all about parenting you can, but it’s still full of unknowns. Picking the name ahead of time, however, is one thing that you definitely can control.

5 WAIT: YOU CAN GET INPUT FROM OTHER PEOPLE YOU TRUST

Another reason to wait is that you can get input from some of the other people in your life after your baby is born. While some parents don’t really want to hear the opinions of other people, others want to hear what close family and friends have to say.

If you need help deciding, other close people in your life could help you once the baby arrives.

4 ADVANCE: YOU CAN GET USED TO CALLING THE BABY THAT NAME BEFORE THEY ARRIVE

While for some people, waiting to select a name until the baby is born can seem more natural, for others getting used to the name beforehand is better.

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If you have a name already picked out, you can imagine calling your baby that name in the future. This can make the name seem familiar and suited to your new child as soon as they arrive. You won’t have to get used to the name.

3 WAIT: CAN HELP YOU DECIDE IF YOU’RE HAVING TROUBLE CHOOSING

If you’ve made a shortlist of names for your baby but are having a difficult time choosing just one, waiting until your bundle of joy is born can help. Maybe you have two names that you love equally and can’t pick one over the other.

Once your baby is here, it’s likely to be easier to decide which one fits them better. You might find that one name stands out among the rest once you have your baby in your arms and can really imagine calling them the name.

2 ADVANCE: GIVING YOUR BABY A NAME IN THE HOSPITAL MAKES THINGS EASIER

If you have a name already picked out in advance, it’s a lot easier to have everything arranged for the birth certificate. While you don’t have to know ahead of time, as you’ll likely have a day or two to decide while at the hospital, you won’t feel as stressed if you already have chosen.

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Picking the name for the birth certificate is a much easier process if you do it while you're there. You can wait, but it will be more expensive and more of a hassle later.

1 WAIT: YOU MIGHT GET INTO FEWER ARGUMENTS OR HEAR LESS CRITICISM FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS

When trying to decide on a name, it can lead to disagreements, especially with your partner. If you both have strong opinions on names but can’t agree, this could lead to disagreements throughout the pregnancy.

Also, if your family or friends are really involved, they might be too happy to give opinions if you decide ahead of time. Waiting until your baby is born will cut down on the amount of time people have to voice their opinions. Also, you’ll be less likely to spend months arguing.

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