You and your man have been together for some time, and you are not getting the feeling that things are going well. At first, your relationship was looking positive. You both seemed to enjoy one another, but you have noticed he is losing interest. You are feeling the distance between the both of you growing. and you are confused as to why.

You are noticing that he is spending more time with his friends, or is spending more time at work, and one thing he avoids doing is talking about the relationship going any further. In fact, he will be giving you an excuse after another as far as why he can't see you. It may be that he is starting to take another course to advance his career, or he is expected to work overtime. He may even have the audacity to talk about a family event he must attend- and he didn't even invite you because it is a "private event". Right, it is.

When he starts avoiding you like the plague, you need to accept that he is not at all into you. Why? Is it you? Chances are it is not, but if it is, chances are it is not because you have put on weight, or even lost weight (yes some guys actually hate that), it could be that your sun sign may be to blame.

Because your sun sign only makes up a fraction of your personal horoscope, it doesn't define you as a whole. However, it is still a significant part of you. Therefore, I will go over the reasons why you’ll never be enough for him, based on your zodiac sign. You never know. If you find yourself to be in this situation, it could hit home for you!

12 Aries - You're Way Too Demanding 

The fact of the matter is that those who have a sun in Aries are always ready to start something new, they constantly want a fresh start and they are extremely passionate. Therefore, for women who have a sun in Aries are constantly expecting their men to give them something new, whether it is a new foreplay technique, a new surprise, anything that is considered to be fun, whatever it is, they want something new from their men.

It is not that these women have unusually high standards, they just want something new from their men each time which they cannot realistically do. Therefore, they will become very tired of these Arian women because they have become too demanding for their men. Many guys just want to continue with what they already have had with their women for a while. These demands just keep driving them away.

The fact of the matter is, there will be a time when these women will know what they need to know from their men if they have been with them for a long time. The new things have to end at some point.

11 Taurus- You're Way Too Materialistic

Those who have a sun in Taurus not only want stability and security, and are not only stubborn but they have a love for material things. They have an appreciation for love, most definitely but food, flowers, chocolates, love notes, and so on- well this is what women who have a sun in Taurus are expecting from their men.

These guys are going to quickly grow tired of wining and dining their women on a continual basis, and they are going to get tired of their Taurean women giving them ultimatums because they had forgotten their gifts. These guys are going to feel like they are underappreciated and are not loved unless they have something tangible for their Taurean girlfriends. They are sick of their materialistic ways and will end up leaving as a result.

The Taurus woman can become obsessed with material possessions and gifts, and need to find a way to appreciate love as it is. This is a challenge these women face since they have an all or nothing way of thinking especially since they tend to link materialism to love.

10 Gemini - You Think You're Too Smart For Him 

Those with a sun in Gemini are a conversationalist, they have a love for learning, and they just don’t like to sit still. They can switch from being in one mood to the next in a heartbeat. And many of those who have a Gemini sun in their horoscopes want to be the smartest around.

Therefore, imagine how Gemini women are around their men. They manage to make them feel a lot less smart than they are. In fact, these Gemini women can make their men feel downright stupid. These women will not necessarily come right out and call their men dumb. Instead, they will go on and on and talk about why they know more than their men. They will do a good job at making it known that their men know very little.

This is incredibly very hurtful to any man’s ego, and there is only so much of that they will take. Eventually, these men will have had enough and bail.

9 Cancer - You're Too Clingy For Him 

It is known that those who have a sun in Cancer are highly emotional, are known to be homebodies and can be downright clingy. And, a woman who has a sun in Cancer will certainly be very clingy to her man. In fact, she will only want him to be hers and hers alone, as she fears that someone else could snatch him away.

At first, he may think the clingy behavior is cute, but at some point, the clinginess will become suffocating to him, and he will do anything he can to run away in the end. The truth is, men cannot stand their women to cling to them all the time. Not in the long run anyway, and these women need to calm down and relax (which is challenging enough for a Cancer, but all they can do is try) and realize that their men will not be snatched by someone. And if these men are, then these women must know that they deserve better than that.

8 Leo - You Take The Easy Way Out And He Hates It

Those who have a sun in Leo are known to be confident, playful, dramatic and sure cannot handle stress. Therefore, these women who have a sun in Leo are in trouble when a complication in their relationships come up which is inevitable. What do they do? They end up taking the easy way out and want to just escape to avoid facing whatever issue is coming into play that is putting stress on the relationship.

That means these women don’t want to communicate with their partners to sort the problem out. They only want to shut down, or escape, and take the easy way out. These men end up ending the relationships anyway because they don’t want to be with women who refused to deal with challenges since that is a huge part of life.

If these women are serious about having any kind of relationship, they need to know at some point it is not about fun and games or else they will keep driving their men away.

7 Virgo - You're A Control Freak 

Those with a sun in Virgo are incredibly analytical, critical, and can be controlling, and neurotic. Therefore, women who have a sun in Virgo are going to analyze everything about their men and the kind of relationship they are in. They can’t stand the fact that many things come up in relationships that are out of their own control. A controlling woman will do anything to manage her man, and the relationship and eventually he will just have enough of it. Especially if he is more of a free-spirited man who prefers to live a carefree lifestyle. Not to mention, men who are just as controlling as she is will also have enough due to the fact that they will clash.

Virgo ladies, please understand that love is all about uncertainty and fluidity. Being in control of every single aspect of the relationship will kill it, fast! If being single for life scares anyone, then this is advice to take to heart.

6 Libra- He's Tired Of You Flirting With Other Men

Those who have a sun in Libra are constantly unable to make a decision, and they have a love for beauty and are non-confrontational. Therefore, not only are Libra women the least likely to be committed to a relationship, and try to avoid conflict whenever they are confronted- but those are not the reasons that Libra women will never be enough for him.

Libra women, these guys are sick and tired of you flirting with other men all of the time. It doesn't matter if you are flirting in person or online! Even if it is all for fun and there is no meaning to it- they hate it. Imagine if the roles were reversed, and how these women would feel if guys were the one who was looking at other women and flirting with them? Not too happy I can guarantee.

This is killing their love game slowly, and if they don’t take control of their flirtatious aways, they will end up single or cheated on.

5 Scorpio - You're Too Complicated For Him

One thing that is known about those who have a sun in Scorpio is that they either love or hate you, depending on whether you treat them well or not. They are also very deep, secretive, passionate and can be analytical. They tend to complicate things that are meant to be simple.

Therefore, if there is a sign that will make love a complex issue, Scorpio would be it.

If you are a woman who has a sun in Scorpio, you will certainly do some deep analyzing on yourself, on your man and the relationship in general. You will certainly analyze the areas that are not compatible with one another. The fact that he isn’t perfect enough for your liking will drive you crazy- and it will drive him insane too.

These men don’t want to make the relationship complicated if there is no need, and will run away as fast as he could from the woman who makes it harder than it needs to be.

This is a huge challenge for Scorpio women, and if they don’t find a way to keep things simple in relationships, they will never find anyone to put up with that.

4 Sagittarius - You Let Him Take Advantage Of You

Those who have a sun in Sagittarius are adventurous, risk takers and always see the glass half-full. That also means many Sagittarians get themselves into bad situations without listening to their intuition. They are not only reckless but they are overly optimistic and will always look for the good in something that simply doesn’t even exist.

Therefore, it is no surprise that Sagittarian women will still stick around men who don’t appreciate them. They will also be more likely to stick with men who are prone to straying, as well as men who are downright abusive. Sure, the intuition maybe screaming at them to GTFO of this toxic relationship, but the Sagittarian woman will ignore it and chalk it up and have the belief that it is a bad trait but he has other good traits that are meant to be focused on.

Once she starts to listen to her intuition, she will find a man who will see her as being enough for him. But until then, she will keep letting guys who don’t value her in her life until they bail on her.

3 Capricorn - You Are Too Cold For Him

The fact of the matter is that those who have a sun in Capricorn are all about business, and nothing else. In fact, they can be downright cold. And when it comes to Capricorn ladies with their men, this definitely is a problem.

Their men could tell them that they love their girls, whether he comes right out or shows it through his actions, Capricorn women just don’t get it. It’s not because they are not smart. In fact, that is far from true.

The nature of the Capricorn is just to be plain cold, and those who are Capricorns have a tendency to build a wall around them, and keep others- even their lovers at a distance. However, this doesn’t mean that Capricorns have no feelings. Because once their men are tired of feeling being taken for granted (which is not the intention of the Capricorn), they will bail which will leave these women confused and upset.

Capricorn ladies, if he shows how much he loves you through his actions, make him know somehow that he is appreciated so he is less likely to bail. All you have to do is put a little effort into showing him some warmth that he would love.

2 Aquarius- You Are Loyal To A Fault 

Those who have a sun in Aquarius are known to be detached, unique and are the type to march to their own drum. However, they are also very honest and Aquarian women are extremely loyal to their men.

You may wonder what is wrong with being loyal? The thing is, Aquarian women many times wrongly assume that the wrong guy is right for them. Even if the guy is a good match, being too loyal can be suffocating for him. He expects you to have other plans at times, or be busy. Sure he wants you to be available for him, but if you are always available for him- he will start feeling guilty when he has other plans or other commitments. Not to mention if you are only around for him, he may be a little creeped out and think you are overly obsessed with him.

Even though an Aquarian woman is not going to be emotional like a Cancer, this will still bother him. Once these guys do end up bailing, for this reason, the Aquarian woman will not understand how a man who she was always around for would take off on her. However, until these women realize that they need to give their men space- the same problem will keep happening.

1 Pisces- You Always Speak In Tongues 

For those who have a sun in Pisces are sensitive, intuitive and can be quite vague. Being overly vague is quite annoying for most, except for those Pisces folks. In fact, they don’t see anything wrong with it. Unfortunately, when it comes to relationships, being vague is not acceptable.

If you are a woman who has a sun in Pisces and you are confused as to why your men keep bailing, it is probably because they got tired of you being vague. The strengths that anyone who has a Pisces sun has is that not only are they easy to talk to, but they certainly can pick up on signs if they are no longer wanted and then move on.

However, when it comes to these women sending their men any kind of sign, that is where the problems begin. Because they are clueless about when to send signs to their men and what signs to send as well. If these men are trying to show their Pisces ladies that they love them. These women don’t show that love to their men. That is one example of how being vague are relationship killers.

Therefore, these women need to start being clear about their intentions as they will be loved and appreciated more when they do this.

Sources: Astrostyle.com, MarieClaire.com, Thoghtcatalog.com, Buzzfeed.com